Smile for Love

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"Smile at each other; smile at your wife, smile at your husband, smile at your children, 

smile at each other – it doesn’t matter who it is – and that will help you to grow up in greater love for each other." ~ Mother Teresa

Smile for love! Some of my favorite quotes are by Mother Teresa and this was a new one for me so I had to share it with you. Smiling is something easy to do and it communicates love, acceptance, happiness and so much more. You can increase love in our world simply by smiling. I encourage you to smile at everyone you see today!
 
Source: http://simplemarriage.net/several-great-marriage-quotes/

17 Great Loving Action Habits to Improve Your Marriage

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1. Pray for and with your spouse
2. Listen to your spouse with your full attention
3. Validate your spouse's feelings
4. Consider your spouse's point of view
5. Notice your spouse's good qualities
6. Thank your spouse for what he or she does for you
7. Serve your spouse in ways that are meaningful for him or her
8. Honor your spouse's boundaries
9. Spend lots of time with your spouse
10. Be honest and trustworthy with your spouse
11. Forgive your spouse
12. Reassure your spouse of your unconditional love for him or her
13. Give your spouse thoughtful gifts (can be free or inexpensive)
14. Write your spouse a love note (it doesn't have to be long)
15. Ask your spouse how you could be a better spouse and then do what he or she asks (as long as it doesn't disagree with your own morals or God's word) 
16. Treat your spouse like you used to before you were married. Odds are you were kinder, more polite and more agreeable in your dating phase (if that's not true for you then kudos to you)
17. Compliment your spouse often (item 5 will help with this one)

The first twelve loving action habits to improve your marriage were adapted from "Loving Your Spouse with a Whole Heart" by Whitney Hopler in the Crosswalk.com Live It e-newsletter dated May 10, 2012. Her article was "a report on the practical applications of Dr. Greg Smalley and Dr. Shawn Stoever's book, The Wholehearted Marriage: Fully Engaging Your Most Important Relationship, (Howard Books, 2009)."

The last five ways to value your spouse (loving action habits) were my own additions.
 

Creating A Loving Atmosphere Tips

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 "A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life." The Dalai Lama

Here are a few tips to create a loving atmosphere in your home.

• Pray and worship God together.
• Make kindness the norm and treat each other with respect at all times.
• Hug each other more often. Small acts of affection build a loving atmosphere.
• Smile more often. I especially aim to always greet and leave my husband with a smile (and a kiss) - even when I'm just departing for another part of our own home.
• Make time to have fun together. Those happy memories enhance a loving atmosphere.
• Create a family bond boosting motto and have fun using it regularly (it can be as simple as "Team [Your Last Name]."
• Ensure that each member of your family is represented in the decor.
• Celebrate each others' successes and uniqueness.

I hope you are inspired to boost the loving atmosphere in your home. May God bless you!